Are They Cheating? Get Tested.
I’ve had two men cheat on me in my life. Both times it was devastating. When it happened with the first one, I was 21 years old, and I had just defied my parent’s wishes and moved in with a guy for the first time. I had broken up with my first love, my boyfriend of 4 years only a few months prior. Matt was a rebound relationship, my boss, and 6 years older than me. In retrospect, I can see why my …

She's Lovely, But Dump Her and She'll Slash Your Tires
Okay, so we’ve all experienced this. At least, I think we’ve all experienced this. You are newly dating somebody you really like. They mention that their last relationship was kind of a rough one. You smile sympathetically, nod, and say “Oh, I know how that goes.” You take secret delight in the fact that this guy doesn’t seem to have a very high opinion of his ex, and you smugly say to yourself “I would never act like that.”

It’s …