We’ve just passed New Years and the only way to beat the funk between here and the dead of winter is to visit your favorite lingerie shop. I don’t care who you are, who doesn’t feel a little better or a little more naughty after going into a lingerie shop? So in order to help you plan your little escapade for your significant other or for yourself, here’s a couple of tips on getting just the right thing to keep your mojo hot.
Depending upon how ‘out there’ you are, …

A good friend of mine has a very nifty catch phrase: Google is your friend. Now, she generally uses this when she’s answering what she perceives to be a stupid question. In fact, the more I think about it, it’s kind of rude. But Google is in fact, your friend. Especially when it comes to dating somebody new.

Websites like Google, MySpace, Facebook, and Dontdatehimgirl.com are indispensable when it comes to doing your research before you get seriously involved with somebody. A quick search can help …

Love at Work
Once upon a time, in a far away land, a ridiculously cute redhead ventured into a zany adventure that would change her way of life. She had no way of knowing that this escapade would whisk her away for two years to a life of secrecy, insubordinate behavior, and a transfer to a new land, even further away.

Or in other words, I once dated a co-worker. Actually, I dated my boss, to be exact.

It all started when I was 21 years old. I had just …

Holiday season dating is always a special time to really show your date a great time, be extra romantic, or just spend an extra couple minutes underneath the mistletoe.
Believe it or not, the custom of having the obligation of kissing when caught under the mistletoe came from Scandinavia. It is the plant of peace, and the story goes that if enemies met by chance in the forest where there was mistletoe in the canopy overhead, they would lay down their arms and maintain a truce until the next day. Not …

Why does it feel like an interview?
You put a lot of thought into the outfit. You want to look your best. You mentally rehearse the situation so you look cool and prepared. You want your best qualities to shine and your weaknesses to take a back seat. You want to appear smart and interesting. It’s very important to you that this event goes well.
I’ve just described the way a person might feel before a job interview AND a first date. Both occasions call for a …

He had to be blond. He had to have blue eyes. He had to be tall and well-built. He had to have a dominant personality. It would have been a definite plus if he were a musician. Blue jeans had to hug his ass just right. These things are what a 16 year-old me would have said was my ideal man. As you can see, the criteria is embarrassingly shallow. I have an excuse though, I was 16! for you 21+ …

I met the first love of my life when I was 17. This person treated me like I was a queen. I was lavished with kind words, gentle actions, and the kind of romance every girl dreams of as her “prince charming.” There was just one problem, this “prince” was a man, and I knew deep down that I was a lesbian. I could not have ever asked for a better person to be with. Never before had someone treated me with such respect and love.
I tried to put the …